If the tracing process execution Bugis Bone marriages among the community, then known several types of marriage, among others:
Marriage is performed based on a proposal (Massuro)
This type of marriage accepted by generations for society Bugis Bone general, both from the nobility and common people. The difference is only of implementing guidelines. For the nobility through a long process with a certain traditional ceremonies, while based on the ability of ordinary people who simply carried out.
Silariang Marriage (Married Running)
Marriage is not based on the proposal will be implemented, but both parties do reach a consensus for the home run leader or village chief to get protection and subsequently maintained in marriage.
Bone In Bugis society, Silariang events (run away to marry) is an act that resulted in “siri” for families of women. First event of this kind for the woman who called “To Masiri” always tried to uphold the dignity or “siri” by killing the man who fled his daughter (his son). However, now according to the customary provisions, if they had been in the house indigenous members of that tribe (the government) so he could not be bothered anymore. Leader or member of the customs duty should try and look after and married him.
For the purposes of the above communication to the parents they held women (To Masiri) for questioning approval. But there also often parents and families the women do not want to give his consent, because he felt humiliated (ripakasiri). Even parents who humiliated (ripakasiri) considers that it has taken her son who died and no longer recognized as his son (nassakarengngi ana’na). What if this happens the other way implemented is the customary term or marriage to the prince-Hakim Wali.
However, although both have been married, the relationship between the families of men and women remain dangerous. Therefore, as long as they have not been received back to refer the so-called “Maddeceng) (apologize), then the man who carried off the girl should remain cautious and avoid trying to meet parents and families of the women.
Marriage by Age
Have known, that the age of marriage set out in law No. 1 Year 1974 on Marriage, namely the age of 16 years for women and 19 years for men. It aims to make both the bride has a maturity in housekeeping, in order to fulfill the lofty goal of a marriage that is a good and healthy offspring.
Previously, the age of marriage there is no restriction so often the case of children under the age of marriage (botting ana’-ana ‘). But they both still lived at home parents respectively. And later both legally baliq (adult climb) then brought together to live as husband and wife. Things like this are still valid until the end of the 19th century
Prohibited Marriage
Since the first custom prevailing in society Bugis / Makassar prohibits marriage between two people (male and female) who still have close blood relations, such as: A man banned from mating with a woman who dropped (mother / grandmother) either through the father or mother . A man was forbidden to marry a woman who declined her (child / grandchild / great-grandchildren), including the descendants of children a woman A man was forbidden to marry a woman from the offspring’s father or mother (siblings / children of siblings) A man banned from mating with the female relatives who lower (father sibling / sibling mother / grandparent sisters from the father or the mother)
From the above, means a man is forbidden to marry a woman in the lineage straight upward and downward without limit. If this happens, then by the Bugis people thought the event “Malaweng” (forbidden acts according to Islam). According to customary law prevailing in society Bugis Bone, so both of them drowned in the sea as a food fish, because it is a serious violation of customary law.

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